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A popular question we get for our famous ‘Ask a Guy’ section is: “Why won’t he call me his girlfriend?
” I am not surprised at all, this situation is the worst!
In addition, and being very direct here, when it comes to guys: if they have sex with you, if they see you on a regular basis and if they introduce you to their friends, as far as they are concerned, the issue is closed. And if they did not bring up the subject of 'let's be boyfriend and girlfriend' that means just that.
They are dating; they are not necessarily your boyfriend, because that means commitment. And of course, there is the dreaded stage of rejection.
What is challenging though, is to sustain the excitement and romance of the initial dating period, once you are in that 'where is it going? And then of course dealing with that odd period of 'what are we, are we a girlfriend and a boyfriend'?
Given that more often than not, guys are 'happy just to be', and girls are really up for the 'girlfriend' and 'boyfriend' tag to be attached, that shadowy period or the time when the decision is being made... Equally popping the question and asking us to be their girlfriend can be very painful to guys.
Perhaps she was trying to be cool, yet it somewhat backfired given the sensitive male ego that comes with the territory. And it also takes the budding relationship forward into the next stage *whether you’re ready for it or not*. [Read: 15 secrets to make your first kiss really memorable! And most girls, well, they’re confused about this big question, to kiss or not to kiss on a first date. It seals an invisible bond, and signifies that both of you are now intimately involved with each other.My relationships at that point would go something like this: we would meet, there would be a spark, we’d hang out a few times, after a few weeks I would freak out and feel trapped and suffocated, I would then lose all interest in the relationship and would do whatever I could to sabotage it.I felt guilty but also kind of alarmed at my inability to feel anything.
If you think that the timing doesn’t matter, think again.